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Stepping into the "new normal" !



The lockdown has finally lifted. Life is slowly getting out of oblivion after almost three long months since the COVID outbreak. The initial panic has subdued, and a sense of surrender and acceptance has set in. The new "normal" of work, business, travel, and life, in general, is being written each day while the economy is slowly limping back.

Our struggle for these past few months to emerge strong has taken its toll. While we make efforts to cope with the new normal, thinking about the basic survival going forward in this changing world that looks completely different in a matter of just a few months! 

Amidst these extraordinary circumstances of the pandemic, we all have changed in our outlook towards life; in the way we perceive, act, and respond. We may not realize it, but we are witnessing an epoch-making moment; a history in making, a turning point that has altered our lives forever!

Who would have thought that simple, routine tasks like venturing out to buy essentials would feel nothing less than an adventure! With the masks and gloves on, fingers crossed, and our hearts filled with trepidation, this is how we would go out henceforth in this "new" world. 

One feels a bit of anxiety about maintaining a safe distance during interactions. A sense of unease is evident in the eyes of people as there is an awkwardness about not being able to extend simple courtesies like shaking hands and hugging. The pandemic has pushed these very basic human gestures into a "danger" zone, and we have no option but to adapt and change the way we interact and socialize.

The normalcy of the past is quickly fading away. As the days blur into one another, laced with all-pervading anxiety, it gives a sense of living in a time warp. Having lost a sense of continuation of the time, we are losing track of the calendar. 

The streets have opened but are bereft of their soul. There are few people on the roads and the rhythm of life on the streets seems to have lost its balance.  That quintessential, fascinating hum and din, that constant clamour, the strong smells that assail all the senses, all these features that serve as the background and look like neverending scrolls of life have gone blank!  

While we struggle to come to terms with our new reality, there is a deep longing for our seemingly mundane, old routines and simple joys of life like;

taking a walk on the beach with bare feet, 

inhaling the smell of the ocean, 

visiting art galleries and museums and witness art that grows over you, 

moving about freely at the public places and smiling at complete strangers,

spontaneous conversations that forge new friendships,

take a stroll around the city for street photography,

long drives with family on the weekends,

travel to different places, 

visiting the spa, 

meeting friends for lunch and gossip,

a warm hug from a special someone on a date, 

lying on the grass, covered with fresh dew, just because

sitting on a park bench, exhausted, after a long walk and observe people passing by

being part of a crowd, 

going for a movie, play or cultural event,

words that warm your heart, 

lines from the books that stay with you,

music that keeps playing in your mind,  

making a list of "things to do' for the day and fussing over it...

Yes, what would one not give to resume all that we love doing,  just like the times before the COVID paralyzed our life? 

As we adapt to the "new normal" and heal ourselves from this experience, let's not forget that life is driving this monumental shift as a sign of something bigger, much significant for us to realize. We are given this rare opportunity to pause and reflect on who we are, where we are headed, and reconnect with our inner self and life and find our true purpose. 

  

14 comments:

  1. Simi... So well articulated.. everyone can identify with your thoughts

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  2. Nicely said Simi. I hope medical as well technological advances will find a solution that we go back to our old lives- albeit with an a heightened awareness of the 'real' things that matter to us.

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    1. Thanks Sangeeta. We are here because of our old ways of living. There is need for a paradigm shift in setting our priorities as individuals, society and Nation. It is high time we think about what where are we headed really and if it is worth it and mend our ways before it is too late 😊

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  3. Yes it's going to be a challenge to adjust to these changed situations. Interestingly though I also feel this period would end in a time warp as you mentioned. If you look at histories of pandemics, you realise that all these have already happened before. Then too people struggled with 'the new normal'. But life as we experienced before Covid was also what came after those pandemics. So, there is hope that in a few years this would also blow over. Hopefully, we do retain some of the much needed lessons learnt during these times.

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    1. True Varsha. Life always finds a way to thrive no? Let's hope and pray we remember the lessons from this challenge and change the way we live. Thanks for dropping by and giving an interesting perspective 😊

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  4. You've really captured the essence of how all of us are feeling ,right now. Love the articulation and the imagery. A greatvread, Simi.

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    1. Thanks Vaishali. I'm glad the article resonated with you. 😊

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  5. How very well you have jotted down everything...as if i can just feel what's going on right now...but as this phase is teaching us so many things, this time shall pass too and we shall be back again where we met and greeted each other and lived freely...

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    1. Thanks a lot Sanchita. Yes, this too shall pass and hopefully soon God willing 😊

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  6. Such a brilliant write up as ever Simi.. Virtual hugs sweetheart

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  7. Very well written!!

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